{relationship} How do I deal with long distance relationship

I have been in LDR for a year, and so comfortable with him (He feels the same too!), so I think I could share some my experience to whom are in LDR as well.

#1- Clear mindset. Before you are in LDR, pls understand your partner can’t be anytime and anywhere you want. Don’t expect he/she will hug you when you are down, otherwise you guys will argue a lot.

#2- Communicating pattetn. We usually have video chat once a week, and five ‘Good morning’ msg on weekday to start our work. For weekend, we might just shut up or only for something essential to say, just like a personal free time. Also it’s important to tell him why you are mad at him, communication time is so valuable to us, can’t be wasted!

#3- Meet up in every 3-4 months.

#4- Learn the language. My partner is a Filipino, so I’m learning Tagalog, just a way to understand his world, and to make use my free time.

#5- Surprise. I sent him postcard when I was in Singapore, and sent him a parcel which I ordered from Selfridges to kill his pimple scar (But actualy it’s no longer a surprise because he got a SMS that a DHL parcel is coming and he’s scared because he didn’t order anything online haha! And then he asked me… It’s a funny memory tho).

Tomorrow I’m gonna catch the flight ticket for November, see the date, it’s just for a night!!! I never try to take a flight just for that short trip… But what to do? He is much important. I hope we could meet again in X’mas so I won’t cry like a dog… Wish me luck (Finger-crossed!)
Me: Gemini-Cancer

He: Gemini
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some thoughts about us election 2016

#1

today is such a long day while waiting for the result, and finally it’s fixed. all the us citizen got his right to vote and what i could say is, the election system should be democratic and the result shows the majorities’ choice. living in the same country, people should bear  what they have chose and accept the result, otherwise it’s better to immigrate to other countries if you prefer other’s government management… but i just saw a news, which similar to the case of brexit, some people started to protest… what if they had well propagate their thoughts to others prior to the voting? if they did, what’s their desire result for protesting? just for showing their disapproval?

no offense here! not an american citizen, and just somehow missing barack. always prefer a humorous person over arrogant…

#2

as a hk citizen, the local lawmaker issue reported in these weeks and months, and honestly i didn’t quite follow the details. yet i saw some of the newsfeed in facebook, some of my highschool-mates are pointing out some of the hk people could speak like a politician while discussing about the us election but no repsonses to the local issue, typically pointing to the famous person, a sarcasm of scaring the chinese government’s influence haha.

all the sarcasm just reminds me of a poster sticking outside one of the university professors’ office, saying when you are judging people using your index finger, the other 4 fingers are pointing to oneself. it teaches me to think about if i have the same mistake before criticize people (yea just like what you learn from jesus christ). voice out to any issues is a kind of freedom, and there’s no rules not allowing people not to ignore/concern local matter…

people living in the same beautiful country, nation, earth, best to team up 🙂 <– haha what a short conclusion to end my ‘diary’ to sleep. like what barack have said, sun rises up in the morning…

 

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let’s seek the local paradise

i know there are many attractive spots/people/culture abroad, but meanwhile don’t forget the foreigner could also think our country/city/community is so adorable. we are so used to the thing that surrounding us… and so i went to an island called cheung chau with my friend today. we took ferry from central and it takes nearly an hour to there. fair enough, good stuff always takes time and pay effort to meet: the effort is to sweat whichever you can, there was no cloud under 33 degree celsius… gosh i really hate summer (and i was thinking what countries i could immigrant which the temperature is around 10-20 degree celsius all the time, yet my friend said it will be easier to pay the air conditioner charge instead of immigration… oh no, greenhouse gases are so excessive nowadays).

and when we went on some bumpy rock, my friend helped me going through, that’s the feeling you can’t find if we just walk around in the downtown (yes he is a gentleman). so if you guys got the girl you like, just do some challenging tasks together to impress her! it works, maybe haha (but he is only my friend as we known each other for 11 years already! wow i just counted the years and didn’t expect that long).

haha don’t know if you guys know where my hometown is, just to clarify, it’s hong kong. have you been to here? if you want to listen a cantonese song, click the link and he is my favorite singer in hong kong, for 16 years…

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a quick update for the guy i met on the plane: we had some conversation via iphone messengers and did facetime once. last update is on wednesday, and today is saturday, seems i’m getting used to it, just like having an email-chat in the previous weeks. he is a typical gemini man, right? disappear without knowing if he is still alive or not haha. he said i was possessive so what i can do is to live my own life gorgeously haha. hey i’m busy too! any gemini men here or any girls got gemini boyfriend? and below signs are mine:

sun=gemini-cancer

moon=cancer

ascendant=libra

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